I’m working on a new project that has me thinking a lot about change lately. Can people really change over time? I’ve seen marriages broken up because one person expected the other to change and it never happened. I’ve known people in the second half of life who look back with disappointment at their own… Continue Reading
Monthly Archives: June 2011
Fear of Blogging #2 – Throwing a party and nobody comes
Review and top posts for June 2011 This is the first “month in review” post for Reverend Mother, and I feel a bit like throwing a party! When I first dipped my toe into the blogosphere, one of my greatest fears was that I would put my heart out there and no one would show… Continue Reading
Me and my shadow
Nothing like having someone looking over your shoulder to make you more mindful of your actions. To make you measure your motivations, anticipate your words. All in a way you would not if you were acting alone. I’ve spent most of the summer so far with a shadow: Our church’s Pastoral Intern, Travis, who has just… Continue Reading
Know it all
Trust me. I know what I’m doing. I’m a mom. Moms are supposed to have all the answers. They’re supposed to know what to do in tough situations. When you were little and something went wrong or you were hurt you went straight to your mom for help. When you did something that got you… Continue Reading
Get comfortable being uncomfortable
Things were quiet. Too quiet. I sat in a circle of 10 people who had no idea what to say. The uneasy silence came during a meeting of our small group that had been together for several months. Usually we were a talkative bunch. I had to struggle to keep people on topic because we… Continue Reading
These things just don’t happen to normal people
In honor of the 2011 Texas Annual Conference of the United Methodist Church that ended today. One of the gifts that women give each other at the birth of a baby is called a diaper cake. It’s a bunch of diapers rolled up and stacked to resemble a multi-tiered wedding cake and then decorated with… Continue Reading